Meet other young lesbians?
Dear Alice,Over the past year, I have been going through a slow coming-out process within myself and have realized that I am a lesbian. The problem is I don't know where to meet other lesbians, and I...
View ArticleBisexual to straight = Black hole?
Dear Alice,Thank you for everything, and it is being appreciated by thousands. I have read all your advice to others and have learned a lot. However, I have a problem that I do not know how to handle....
View ArticleIn love, cut off, what now?
Dear Alice,I am a male CU grad student who over the past year and a half has fallen in love with my best friend. His feelings for me are, or at least were, similar (we've even talked about it). Now,...
View ArticleExcellent site, but could you take out the gay stuff?
Dear Alice, You have an excellent site ... I think that there is a lot of information that would be useful for high school students ... BUT (there had to be a "but") ... as webmaster for our district,...
View ArticleResources for lesbians and gay men in New Jersey... and everywhere else
I am a student, in high school in New Jersey. I'm almost 19. Where can I go to meet other gay girls. I'm so alone. I live in northern New Jersey.
View ArticleLonely lesbian wants to be less lonely
Dear Alice,I'm a young lesbian and I masturbate a lot because of the lack of dating and sex. I live in a very small town. What and where can I meet other lesbian girls? Should I stop masturbating?lonely
View ArticleWorried about gay-bashing
Dear Alice, I'm a teenage gal in a great relationship with another girl who goes to my school. We're both out to our parents and some friends, with okay reactions. The problem is, our school is pretty...
View ArticleThe fake straight dude
Dear Alice, Okay, let's say you have this teenager who is gay. He's dating this girl, and been doing it for over a year, and only doing it to fit in as being straight. In this school, if you don't...
View ArticleGay and President?
Dear Alice,At this stage of the game, I think I am gay. I often fantasize about a friend I have known for a while, I am not sure if he is gay, but sometimes I convince myself he is, other times I'm...
View ArticleMan trapped in woman's body: Coming out of the transgender closet
Dear Alice, I want to become a male but I'm trapped in a female's body. I recently saw "Boys Don't Cry" and everything Teena felt I felt. Becoming a male would make me truly happy but I'm hopeless and...
View ArticleGay student from China wonders about his new life in New York
Dear Mz. Alice: I'm an undergraduate student from China. And I'm going to the mathematics department with fellowship. I'm really very happy and eager for my future life in Columbia. I'm now twenty...
View ArticleThey don't believe that I'm gay!
Alice,Girls say that I am true "boyfriend material" to take home to their parents. The problem is that when I tell them that I am gay, they don't believe me. I've known some of these girls from 3 - 11...
View ArticleWill I ever find a gay partner?
Dear Alice, I've been gay all of my life, and until just now, I've learned to accept it. I've told all my friends that I am gay. Some of them didn't like that, and now they're not my friends. None of...
View ArticleBigender college student support and community
Hello,Do you know if universities in the United States or elsewhere do anything specific to help integrate students who consider themselves bi-gender? How can these students best be helped? Thanks.
View ArticleBreast binding safety
Hi Alice, I identify as transgender (ftm) and have recently begun binding my breasts using a commercially-available breast binder. I bind more or less all the time, except for when I'm sleeping....
View ArticleWhat does it mean to be intersexed and how common is it?
(1) Dear Alice,Can you explain to me what "intersexed" persons are?(2) Dear Alice,How common is a hermaphrodite (looking for percentages)?
View ArticleSafer sex between women
Hi Alice,I am a young gay female. I am in the middle of a relationship. It is the first time for both of us. A friend gave us a book of stories and poems, etc. about gay relationships. In a couple,...
View ArticleWill I ever find a gay partner?
Dear Alice,I've been gay all of my life, and until just now, I've learned to accept it. I've told all my friends that I am gay. Some of them didn't like that, and now they're not my friends. None of my...
View ArticleMeet other young lesbians?
Dear Alice,Over the past year, I have been going through a slow coming-out process within myself and have realized that I am a lesbian. The problem is I don't know where to meet other lesbians, and I...
View ArticleWorried about gay-bashing
Dear Alice,I'm a teenage gal in a great relationship with another girl who goes to my school. We're both out to our parents and some friends, with okay reactions. The problem is, our school is pretty...
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